Don't feel bad about your incident. My friend who I have known 30+years had his wife's jewelry stolen by his son's BEST friend! Both kids grew up together and were like brothers.
The police traced the stolen jewelry from the pawn shop to my buddy's wife who was unaware she had about $10K in jewelry missing from her hiding place. Since the kid (20 years old) roamed the house as a family member, he took advantage and ripped them off. He also did it to several other friend's families.
Under the Florida Pawn Law, the victim has to reimburse the pawn shop to get the property back then try to collect from the thief. In this case, the thief's father stepped up and bought back the jewelry and was returned to the owners. The case is pending in criminal court now.