... BlueNosers352nd/Jim/
Sounds like you are infact between "the devil" and the "deep blue sea" ... so to speak ...
I would never expect a fellow modeler to support a hobby shop that was trying to rob you on pricing. Any retailer is entitled to a fair profit ... but when it goes beyond that ... I would not support them nor encourage others to do so.
In reading your post, your profile and viewing your website, it appears that the greater Kalamazoo, MI area has many active scale modelers ... I am surprised that the hobby shops in the area are not more competitive in their pricing ... I can only assume that someone must be supporting them.
I see that you have just now found the FSM community modeling forum(s) ... may I extend an "unofficial" welcome to you ... and I hope many of your fellow Kalamazoo MI IPMS members. Happy modeling!