A Support the Troops rally held in Milwaukee, WI - Saturday March 22nd.
My family along with my mother, stepfather, sister (also an Army veteran from the time during the first Persian Gulf War) and brother-in-law attended this rally on Saturday. It was great seeing everyone out there in support of the troops.
With our 3 kids all waving flags and being so cute
, we had quite a few people taking pictures. We were even asked by a camera man from the local FOX channel if we would mind being filmed. We talked a bit and finally I said sure. However, once he turned on that camera I felt like my IQ had just dropped in half
. I fumbled around -- all the reasons for us coming down that I had mentioned to the camera guy before he turned on the camera totally went out of my mind. How embarrasing that was.
Finally coherent sentences came out and we talked for a bit on camera. He sat there and filmed me with the kids for awhile, telling us to pretend he's not there -- yeah right.
I guess we did alright because I had people telling me that they saw us on TV.
I missed both newscasts that we were supposedly on. It's too bad -- my 15 seconds of fame and I didn't even get to see myself.
Which brings me to the purpose of this message...
After having time to think about what I could have said, some things came to mind which I wished I would have said. It's too late for the news, but I thought I would share it here.
Something we had talked about was if the kids were aware of what's going on, what their reaction to all of this was, etc.
I said that I've had the news on quite a bit and I've let them watch parts of it. They have a lot of questions which my wife and I try our best to explain. Some people would argue that kids shouldn't see any of this stuff, in fact some would argue the extreme and say we should shield them from all of this.
I disagree. My opinion is that my kids need to see some of what's going on. They need to understand what's going on over there. First of all, this is history. They're living during major events and I would like them to see it for themselves and not "learn" about this years later from a history book. Yes, they may not understand everything, but I'm going to do my best to explain it to them.
I like talking to my kids and discussing with them about the children in places like Afghanistan and their experiences. It gives them a better appreciation for the freedom's they enjoy. When I told my daughter that some of the girls over in Afghanistan couldn't even go to school without getting in trouble, she was astounded. She asked me if that was real and I told her yes. I want to make sure that my kids understand how well they have it in America, understand the freedoms they have and not to take it for granted.
Also as a veteran I want them to know what our troops are doing in places like Afghanistan and Iraq. To grow up with a respect for our troops and an appreciation for what they do and the sacrifices they make. I want them to be proud of our troops. If I as a veteran don't teach them this, who else is going to? If they ever do make the decision to serve their country, great. If they don't, that's fine too, but I want them to grow up with respect for those who serve (past and present), respect for the flag, the country they live in, and for the freedoms that others have given their lives for.
--Dave