I can't argue with any of the advice above.
As for the pastels, stay away from oil based pastels, they are practicaly useless for any endeavor in the modeling hobby. They're messy, greasy, they don't ever dry to the touch and they react very unfavourably to any sealand coat you may try to put over them. All this on top of the fact that, because they never really dry, they are dust magnet areas on your model and once the dust is on them its on them for good, its not going anywhere, in the space of less than a year, you'll want to strip all the paint off your model and do it again differently just because it looks so bad from the dust.
On the matter of simulating dust on your models when you really want it there, chalk pastels are your best friend. You do have to grind them up very finely, but they do dry brush on to a model very nicely.
Good luck!