Tamiya is good for Japanese subjects, but might require mixing to get the color/shade needed. I've mostly used MM acrylic and Tamiya, but have some MRP, Vallejo, AK, and MIG on hand. Shot some of the Vallejo, but you want to let it dry completely before masking over it. Most say their primer is junk. Tamiya white or grey are my go-to's.
Lot of kits give color callouts for Mr Color. Need to clean the airbrush with laquer thinner, as they are an acrylic lacquer.
As to a color guide, FSM did an issue in winter of 2020, called "building and detailing aircraft". It includes cross reference to the major paint brands and their color numbers for most all countries from WWI to present. Can order from FSM or check with some hobby shops. Around $11.