Merideth,
Ive tried the techniques described by Eric. Preshading can work on camo patterns if, like you say, the paint is thinned more than the usual. But here, the colors are applied strictly in accordance with the camo pattern. This means that in SEA camo, for example, you should not spray the tan color over areas supposed to be covered by the greens. The final colors are slowly built up, skirting around the panel lines (and, if youre using a fine nozzle, even around the rivet lines). It takes a longer time and may be difficult when using a medium head, but the results are gratifying.
For "postshading," you may want to try experimenting with mixing the darkened/lightened color with clear paint. That way, the paint consistency is not drastically thinned to the point of ruining already sprayed on paint, but the result will nevertheless be subtle enough. Ive also done this when trying to recreate exhaust fume stains.
Hope this helps.