No apologies needed Mississippi, no worries. I was trying to get the correct shade for it and several articles I read named the BMW paint as Stik and you mentioned and a couple others called it a Mercedes Benz color. I personally believe it was the BMW metallic color and the MM Anthracite Metallic Gray enamel is supposed to be a close match to it according to what I read.
Fly-n-high was gracious in offering a spare decal sheet from his stash and just maybe those will be in better shape than mine. What gets me is that the decals look absolutely brand spanking new, as if they were made yesterday. Once they touch water it becomes a disaster.