Personally, I don't pre-shade... I prefer to use pastels to post-shade as I have more control and use a lot less time on the airbrush... Also, I forego using acrylics at all if I have just a single color to paint, like OD, dark yellow, or Panzer grey... No measuring, mixing, or clean-up...
Do you still use Future when using acrylics or will Decalfix/Micro-Sol suffice?
I use white vinegar for decal setting solution. Test this on a spare decal from your sheet BEFORE you use it on the model though. Some decals don't like it, others are not affected in any way by it.. Monogram decals seem to be the least affected when it comes to using vinegar.. It works great on Microscale & Scale Master decals..
I use a rattle-can of Model Master enamel instead, plus, Tamiya's colors are a little off IMNSHO with certain shades, especially Olive Drab (I think it's WAY too dark).. Whether or not I'm using enamels or acrylics, I don't use Future to prep the paint for decals (It's for floors, far as I'm concerned, although it works great for "glass" on headlights and gauges).. I use Testor's MM Glosscoat over acrylics or Tree House acrylic gloss over enamels. Again, no mixing, measuring, or clean-up. The only reason to use a gloss coat is to give the decals and washes a smooth surface to adhere to, after all... In fact, it doesn't even have to be glossy; a satin or semi-gloss is enough for decals..
Wash wise, will I be ok to apply an enamel wash made with enamel thinners straight onto the acrylic paint surface?
Sure... Just be sure to move fast so you don't give it any real time to attack the under-lying paint AND make sure you've given the finish enough time to fully cure (24 hours is the usual recomendation, although Tamiya cures a bit faster). Washes also work best over gloss surfaces.. Flat-finished surfaces make it hard to control the wash and keep it confined to panel lines, corners, outlines, and recesses. Also, be sure to keep in mind that, after you have applied the decals and washes, you'll be wanting to apply the flat overcoat, since drybrushing and pastel applications work best on flat-finished surfaces... The clear flat-coats will have some "tooth" which'll allow the drybrush and/or pastel to grab onto the paint and hold it.
When you lads use this through the AB by what ratio do you like to thin it?
I don't have a ratio as such... I mix Tamiya in a separate bottle (always doing enough to paint the moel at least THREE times. Left-over mixes can be stored in a clean bottle for a couple weeks with no problems (After that, it's a crap-shoot) and then transfer the mix to the paint cup. The "milk comparison" works pretty good for adjusting the viscosity of the paint, but if you get it a little too thin, don't sweat it... Just apply several light coats (let each one "flash", meaning it's dried to the eye) until the desired level of color opaqueness is reached.