Hi folks. I havn't been around for a while because of my grief at my wife's passing. I came back for a little and then everything went to hell and I had real troubles coping. Not looking for sympathy, thats just the way things go, but now I'm coping much better and starting to get back on with life. So today while I was playing catch up I read through this thread and it started me thinking.
I have read a lot of comments about the pros and cons of this site, how much it has changed over the years and the current sense of disapointment at low participation levels. All of this may well be true, but I have only been a member for 3 years and I am not a prolific modeler, as I have many other things going on in my life. I have no knowledge of what things were like before, but I can honestly say that when I joined this site, I thought I had found gold.
Sure, I have been critical in the past, particularly when the FSM mag went bi-monthly and I got into strife with the powers that be. However, over the past few months I have spent a lot of time reflecting on my life and the things that are important to me, and this website is one of them. During my grief I knew it was there and that if I made it through I would come back to it. Why? because it's a very nurturing, non elitist group who focus on the fun of modeling and who, in my experience, are happy to share. Yep, the site can be crappy and yep there are some with no interest in participating other than to promote themselves. But.... I don't care.There are a lot of wonderful people here too. I have raved to non modelers about this site that lets me share my hobby and communicate with other modelers around the world and I firmly believe in self fulfilling prophecies. If we keep the thinking negative, so it will be. I don't know what the participation levels were like, I probably don't know any of the people that have left to go to other sites and I'm sorry but I don't care. What I love is the community that I know now and how helpful and supportive they have been to me.
Life is a challenge and we all have to deal with it. Sometimes that means that we have to put our enjoyments aside to concentrate on life matters, so we can't participate as we'd like to. Sometimes we just get flat and lose our interest in things for a while, even a few years. But if participation deoes drop off, does it really matter? Those of us that are able to participate surely enjoy the process. I know I do and I've missed this site and you mob badly over the past few months.
I love this place and I draw great comfort from it. I don't know if I'll ever meet any of you, but I hope I will. I have made some great friends here. So from a relative newbie who knows nothing of the past, let me say I find this a bloody marvelous place, and yes, to me it's gold.
I'll get off my soapbox now. If I've upset anyone, I'm sorry, but deal with it.
Dodgy