jwb wrote: |
Chris, I ditto what Bill said- share that with her! It may be a simple thing- but shared joy is doubled joy. And the model can be an anology for the changes you have made in the modeling of your own life. If you do not wish to do so though, I simply say I leave it up to you, brother. You know my heart- I pray for you and her, that a healing that surpasses all understanding will be your gift this Christmas. This GB is fun, and it has rules- but compassion for each and every person in this build is far more important to me than the build itself. I stand with you in spirit, if not physically, my friend. |
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Chris
I ditto numberous times over what JON has to say.
With the world pent up on what to me seems, who has the most and biggest of toys is the winner. But to me that is not true. To a lot of people - the simpliest of things is the most important and the most cherished. Take your Christmas present with you and open it there. Share the stories and your friends with you Grandma. Also seeing Tara and the little one will make her day. She will cherish this memory forever. The smallest and simpliest present speaks volumes. Family are cherished, even if only shared for a short moment.
I lost my step-mother in 2000 from cancer - quite fast when we found out. She got to see her grandchildren grow up but never got to meet her great grandchild. Fortunately she got to see photos of her great grandchild. She wanted to keep the picture, so pictures for the grandchildren and great grandchild are with her.
The unfortunate is that my biological mother will probably never get to meet any of her grandchildren or great grandchildren, but that may change, one never knows.
So Chris, take the opportunity to go and visit and share the bright moments of you life. The opportunity may never come again.
I do not profess to be anywhere near perfect to give advice, but this is my thought.
Glad to be a friend and lend an ear. In the event your days get busy and crazy, like the rest of us - Merry Christmas to you and your family and your relatives. Wish you good will in the forthcoming festive season and the new year. We may not be able to change what has gone by, but we can shape and mold the future and things to come.
John