Many of the modelers in the 40 something age group started as kids tube gluing model kits that cost us less than a dollar. As we progressed through the years, being inspired by modelers like Shepard Paine and later Francois Verlinden, our skills improved and so did our research abilities.
With the advent of the internet and its effect on modeling, our expectations in terms of accuracy, engineering/fit and matters of variety increased. Remember the old days when we were happy to have a kit of a Tiger? Now we have umpteen different variations of Tiger tanks and even models of a Tiger that was a "one of".
While I agree that this is a hobby and as such, should not be taken too seriously, modeling is just like any other adult hobby like golf. Some golfers spend lots of money taking lessons, buying the ultimate clubs, traveling to the best courses, joining prestigious country clubs, etc. Others like to grab their hand-me-down clubs and head to the local public access golf course to get a round in when the weather's nice. Different strokes for different folks.
I like to build kits that fit well and that the subject appeals to me in some way. If I "care" about the subject I am modeling, I may try to accurize the kit to the best of my ability. If I do not particularly care about the subject and just like the looks of the vehicle, I may just build it out-of-box and leave it at that.
I also buy vintage kits or the reissues of some kit I built as a child. Sometimes I like to try to bring the old kit into modern standards, other times I like to see how it would look OOB when built with my current skills.
On the internet, many of the forums erupt into flame wars. These never do anyone any good and often turn some modelers away from the hobby (too much drama). Most of the modeling websites were created by modelers who had some computer skills. Many of them tried to make the running of the website an additional hobby. Unfortunately, for many of them, running the website literally took up their modeling hobby time.
Some of the modeler/webmasters actually reached the point where the advertising procedes made them enough money that it became their sole source of income. To them, this is no longer a hobby, but a livelihood. The trolls and other lowlifes that try to disrupt the day to day operations of the site are interfering with those modelers' income.