David, first...Welcome to the forums, glad to have you on board! Second...awesome story! Great memories for you I'm sure, and now, they can live on!
As for materials, I hear you my friend! I had a 20 year hiatus while in the Air Force. I kept on buying kits but never put one together. When I retired in 2010, man, what a world of difference the hobby was from the 70's-80's! Never even heard on PE, or AM stuff. The only glue we had was that god awful Testors stuff in the orange tube! . But now...the possibilities are almost endless! Welcome to the new age! As for your materials. You will get 20 different answers! My suggestion, get a FSM mag or another modeling mag you might have over there and see what is being used. Then, if you have the funds, try everything once! I bought 7 different glues and 3 different paints to try. You will soon learn what is good for you and what your tastes are. I personally use Ambroid ProWeld for glue. Not sure you can even get it anymore. Tenax 7R is just as good and a little easier to get. Tamiya is a really good one also. Those three are really hot and literally melt the plastic! If you want something a little slower at first to work your skills, I got hooked on Faller Expert and Super Expert glues when I was stationed in Germany. I can't tell the difference between the Expert and Super Expert myself, but the are slower to dry and more forgiving when it comes to mistakes. As for paints....another whole world you are talking about now. Do you have an airbrush? If not...GET ONE!!!!!!!!! It will change your whole world my friend! Seriously, you will not regret it! So, if using an AB, I really like Tamiya paints. You can almost just pour them into the AB and spray! As for hand painting...I use Testors, Model Masters, and Vallejo paints mostly. I'm trying to make a complete cross over to acrylics, but sometimes you just have to use an enamel!
So, there you have ONE opinion. Like I said, you will get 20-30 more different ones......AND ALL ARE CORRECT! Each person gets into the zone with one type of product and does awesome things with it, you just need to find "your" products!
Bottom line...HAVE FUN DOING IT! Again...WELCOME!
Eagle90