Really can’t ascertain too much about your problem from your sketchy details,but it seems it’s either a roommate or a family member.Roomates can be told off,but if it’s family member,spouse,or significant other,then their are other deep seated problems here that need to be addressed,because if a loved one can’t give you any “me” time,something’s wrong with the relationship.
It's a 83 year old relative that does nothing but worry and be miserable I try to have empathy towards this female button she pushing it.