Lufty- that second shot is obviously the better of the two, but it can get even gooder.
If you have full-on manual controls on your camera, use the same settings as before, but either increase the shutter speed by full stop, or close down the aperature 1 full stop. It will most likely appear too dark, but it will be a more accurate exposure for the highlights. If you don't have full manual control over these settings, then you might be able to fool the camera into doing it another way. If your camera has an "exposure compensation" setting, then dial in -2/3 and rinse and repeat the photo as before. This will cause the camera to automatically underexpose the image by 2/3 stop. I highly recommend that all digital cameras have, at a minimum, -1/3 stop dialed in to help preserve highlight levels (I go with -2/3 on my Nikon D2X). Trust me, it works a treat in everyday photography.
Digital cameras cannot record all of the tonal range that we can see with our Mk. 1 eyeballs, so there is always going to be a compromise in what is seen and what is recorded. Me, I opt to preserve the the highlight details by underexposing a little bit than to lose the highlights for the shadows.