Well ranted, Tench!
Glad to hear you feel better.
Here's my take on "difficult" kits: No matter what our skill level or temperament, we're all going to run into something that will invariably give us some degree of trouble with every kit we build. Although some kits are very close, no kit is perfect in accuracy, fit, ease of build, or comprehensiveness of the instructions. As was mentioned earlier, how we deal with these challenges defines what kind of modelers we are.
Unlike other products we buy, model kits are hard to "regulate," for lack of a better word. They are "hobby kits, " intended to be assembled by the "hobbyist." Can we make a complaint to the Better Business Bureau if our P-61's fuel tank halves are mismatched? What if, out of the box, our P-61 is not entirely accurate? Legally, from a consumer protection standpoint, what responsibilities do kit manufacturers have as far as fit, accuracy, and ease of build go? Can we take a kit manufacturer to court over the words "easy to assemble" if we think it's a very difficult to assemble kit? A problem with truth in advertising, perhaps? It's all subjective, so I'd guess not.
The bottom line is that I believe we, as modelers, should accept the challenges presented to us by less-than-perfect kits, and do our best to build them to our own level of individual satisfaction. What more can you ask from a hobby? It's supposed to incorporate a certain degree of "creativity," no?
If you're the type of modeler that absolutely cannot tolerate fit problems, ambiguous instruction sheets, and the need of some kits to be researched independantly a bit, then I suggest you at least do a bit of research
before you buy a kit to make sure a kit is suited to your personal "tolerance level." Do not buy those that are not. However, I cannot agree with denouncing an entire company based on a bad kit or two or three. Heck, even
Lindberg has a few good kits. None of which are coming to mind right now...
To conclude today's dissertation, it's interesting to note there are usually two camps in the "good kit/bad kit" debate: modelers who demand a perfect-fitting, OOB masterpiece that requires no fiddling or research whatsover, and those that don't want a model to "build itself." That is, they feel they have accomplished much more when they have taken a horribly detailed, horribly fitting and horribly inaccurate kit and turned it into a work of art.
Personally, I choose a subject I want to build, look for the "best" kit available of the version of the subject that I want to build, and then I just deal as best I can with the inevitable problems that are bound to crop up on the journey from vision to realization. If it's a subject I am passionate about building, then I won't let any technical problems stop me. I build to the best of
my skill level, not the level of the kit.