I am one of the group that washes the parts before I build, using a fish tank net to dip parts into a bowl of water-soap mixture, then to rinse
I only wipe off the finished model with swabs and Q-tips dipped in rubbing alcohol after assembly
even if you do choose to wash in water after assembly,,,,,,don't immerse the model in water,,,,,,,,water gets trapped inside sometimes,,,,,,,,you either end up waiting forever for the model to dry before you paint,,,,,,or you get seepage during the masking or painting stages
wash the model with a brush, or one of those sponges on a stick,,,,,near running water, but not under the stream or in a bowl (I am sure your LHS buds didn't mean dip it in the water)
Rex