Berny,
it's time's like this i think "better you than me"
no actually i (try to) think "thank God nothing really bad happened".
i know it's cold comfort, but material things can be replaced.
when i was a college student and had an off road (one car)accident on a patch of ice, i mustered up my courage to report this to Dad. his response:
"are you ok" (other than nerves, yes)
"was anyone else involved or hurt" (thankfully no)
"how's the car" (not so good)
to which he responded cheerfully "well, if you can still drive it, bring it down to the store and i'll take a look at it"
i could never understand afterward why i had been so surprised at his reaction. ever since, i have tried to apply the same kind of criteria (sometimes it is HARD!)
but as a wise person once said
"Don't sweat the little (stuff). And it's ALL little (stuff)"
someday you'll look back on this and laugh.
hope it's soon.
just avoid that deadly tactical mistake:
saying a) "well what else could possibly go wrong?"
or b) "things couldn't possibly get worse"
never tempt 'fate'.
good luck, Berny.
sounds like the wheel has already started to turn.
you'll be back on top in no time.
ed.