Personally, I enjoy researching a new project almost as much as building it. Not only do I get information about the real thing which directs the building process, but it's interesting to learn about the technical or historical aspects. I also enjoy swapping parts from one kit to another, holding up bits of one kit against another model to see what's possible and trying to envisage whether the wheels from one kit will fit the tires from another, or whatever. And I still get a buzz from lifting the lid off a brand new kit for the first time, looking at the sprues and trying to imagine what the finished model will look like.
Each and every one of us modellers has a talent for some aspect of modelling, even if we aren't all completely comfortable with every element. But we can all learn from those who have skills which we don't possess. The best way to learn is to watch someone who is an expert. We can't all do that, but it is possible to follow the expertise of skilled modellers through the pages of the numerous modelling magazines currently available. Back issues can often be found at your local library.