I totally agree with what you are saying. I have said, countless times to myself (and to my wife) If you want something, go ahead and get it. We both save for a rainy day, save for the childrens edjucation but, I told her, life is too short not to enjoy it.
That is why my collection is growing, if I like it, I'll pick it up. It's not even the fact that, that I spend more than I should. I think you are very correct in saying that, maybe I'm trying to balance between collecting and building. I love to do both. Working the new hours I do, really limits the time I have to build. Maybe this is why I'm becomming more concerned about the collecting side.
I fully plan to build (or at least attempt) to build every kit in my collection. I think all of us say or at least think this. When the kids have grown and moved on to college, my wife and I want to move and get a different house. I have said countless times, I would love to have a downstairs den, with all the models I have built.
Well the first step, in the 12 step program is admitting it:
Hi, my name is Eric and I'm a model collector and builder