Pawel is right on. (btw ...awwww, thanks camo! Never knew you had feeling like that for me!)
The only thing that I would ad to this would be that imitating an IR light is a little difficult as it's supposed to be IR, but here's two things .... 1) I don't know if I would go with a red LED as the IR light itself, if you look right at one, is a little more purple. There's a trick to painting a LED with clear orange paint to make it look more like an incadecent light .... however, I'm not sure that the same can be done for IR light.
2) The more resistors you add to an LED the dimmer it will become. My overall thought on this would be to paint the LED bulb and or the lense that you're using with a clear purple/ red (if you can find this color/ type of paint .... never seen clear purple). Then wire everything up the way its supposed to be in the dio. Then start adding/ testing with increasly more resistors until you get the color/ brightness that you're looking for.
Lighting models is a big pain IMO, however the end result if done right is great ... if not, you might be stuck the a model that's been hacked up for nothin!
Let us know how it goes!