Oooh, the Philippines. I don't know if it would be carried there, but it should be. The primer is essentially zinc chromate. I have seen it called self-etching primer, zinc yellow primer and aluminum etching primer. The can should state that it is formulated for aluminum.
By washing the model, I assume you mean a color wash to accent the panel lines? Once it is painted, you can use washes, dry-brushing and other weathering techniques as normal!
Micro-Mark makes a foil adhesive, they call it Micro Metal Foil Adhesive, and it is essentially a contact type cement. You brush it on, allow it to "dry", and then burnish the foil in place. It is a good alternative to Bare-Metal foil, especially if you can get Nestle's Crunch candy bars. They are wrapped in a highly reflective, extremely thin foil that makes great landing gear strut oleos!