Good point! It is sort of like weathering. Some models want to create something clean and perfect, others prefer the weathered look. But weathering is easy to do- putting wrinkles and other flaws is not!
The B-52 is maybe the best example of your problem. When it is on the ground, the sides of the fuselage are horribly wrinkled. Sure, it straightens out in flight when the wings tighten that area up, but if you are displaying it sitting on the ground, the real one would be wrinked. I suspect the mfgs believe we want it to look smooth and perfect. I think it would require a big movement among modelers asking for realistic surfaces to convince the mfgs.
Same thing with panel lines. There I believe the mfgs are in step with modelers. Most of us seem to want these lines to be very prominent, even overscaled. At least that problem is getting better. So recent kits have very fine panel lines- depends on whose kit.