Cuda, I have to say you have a wealth of knowledge on this subject, and I will defer to most of what you have said.
But I will say one thing about the Phantoms, is that I will agree that most of the C and D models were in the reserve or guard in the 80s, but the Phantoms we had were the Photo Recon models, and were most definatly being used in front line service, and I was assigned to an active duty regular USAF base. The Recces and the F-4Gs were the holdouts in the Phantom line, because of there specific missions.
We did have a reserve unit based with us that flew the F-4Ds, and they were painted the same as our RF-4Cs. And the 36081, was the ONLY gray we EVER used. From the time we started to repaint the tan on the wrap-a-round, it was that color.
Now, I do realize that I'm focused on what my experiences were, at my base, and that other bases my have done differently. But we were 12th AF HQ., and I'm sure that we were setting an example for other units to follow. I can't remember how many times we had plane go through the paint hanger, just so it could be taken to a CO competition, and we ALWAYS had the best looking birds, and we were very proud of that fact.
Please share you background with me, so I can better understand your knowledge base.
As you can see from my AFSC (42751) that I was the guy who actually applied the paint to the planes, so I do know what I'm talking about, on my end. And I respect everything you have said, i just feel you're selling the Phantoms a little short.