Derek, this way madness lies!
I built a couple of these kits for a friend, after much cursing I hit on the following method.
Forget decal softener's, Let the decal soak well, They don't like to slide much & they tear very easily. I found the best thing was spit! See if you can lift the decal slightly & get some under it, apply to the wing surface too. Slowly slide your decal into place. Press down with a soft cotton cloth. Now apply softener if you think you need to.
Do both top surfaces, leave to dry overnight. Then do the undersides, again leave to dry overnight.
They will now be ready to cut. Gently do so, they will be very brittle so take great care. Some bits may come off the wings, so apply softener and try to restick them, failing that, I had some paint in the right colour so I touched them up with that.
It's a long difficult job & I was glad when I finished, never again!
Pete