Well, the 18-year-old has a point, but things aren't as drastic as he makes them seem. I'm a member of the Mid Atlantic Air Museum in Reading, PA, so I get to see vintage planes pretty much as often as I want to. They have a Navy version of the Stearman biplane trainer used in WWII.
It's fabric covered, and I noticed that the glossy paint makes the plane look like it's covered in .... plastic!
Panel lines, rigging wires on biplanes, and other features we agonize over are often not very visible on real aircraft when seen at a distance. That's not to say that weathering or rigging on models is a bad thing, just that it's easy to overdo it and end up with that as the focus rather than the model itself.
My opinion only...
Regards,
-Drew