http://www.aefdesigns.com for accesories
http://www.greatmodels.com you can find some things
http://www.squadron.com " " " " " "" "" " " " " " " " "" "
those are just a few places I like to hunt for goodies.
you can also check with the manufactures of kits, or just go to the local shop and sink some cash and see the goodies in person.