Agree with the comments here, you're gonna be spending some money... :)
Getting a good soldering iron definitely helps, I went with a Hako 888D, been really happy with it.
Get some breadboards!
Another thing to get is a DC power supply. You plug it into your AC socket, and then it lets you choose the DC power output in Volts, and then some let you control the current (Amps) as well. You can also see the total current your circuit is drawing while it's active, which is great if you're going to go with a battery setup and need to know what your power requirements are (yes you can work all this out on paper mathematically but it's really nice to get it confirmed in the real world with this).
One question you'll want to ask, if you just want some lights (of a single color) to immediately turn on, and then turn off when you flip a switch, then that's relatively easy to set up and design the circuit for. But if you want the lights to "power up" , i.e. gradually increase in brightness, then that's a more complex design. If you want different colors as well, then that's also more complicated.
I learned by watching a bunch of youtube videos on electronics basics. Ultimately I went with using neopixels because you got color control, and intensity control all in one thing and you could buy them individually as single LEDs and then just wire them together and hook them up to a microcontroller. Since I write software for a living it wasn't hard to program the arduino to handle this.
I have a FineMolds 1/72 MF kit waiting for the same treatment! Curious to see what you come up with!
Some links from my personal list of stuff that I used
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSRe_4TQbuo&list=PLvOlSehNtuHtVLq2MDPIz82BWMIZcuwhK&ab_channel=EEVblog
https://www.youtube.com/@EEVblog
His channel is great!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=poWJTSV4Yio&list=PLowKtXNTBypETld5oX1ZMI-LYoA2LWi8D&ab_channel=BenEater
https://www.youtube.com/@BenEater
Another great channel, does a great job explaining