I agree with Tracy
"It's a hobby and the weight of the world should not be on anyone's shoulders."
I am amazed at the detail, painting, accuracy and the amount of work some put into their model ships. I have only built a half dozen warships.
I am amazed at the number of parts that the manufacturers put into the model ships. Then, I read about the number of detail parts modelers add to the model ships. The total is almost beyond comprehension. Then there is the putty(corrections to the ship), painting, etc to complete the ships.
I am an amateur compared to the "Real Experts". I just want my ships to look nice.
The first two ships I built, I wasn't even aware of photo-etch brass. On one ship I used "N" gauge railroad rails for the railing on the model ship.
The next group of ships I built, I choose the "wrong" scale (1/300). Even with the wrong scale, I enjoyed the challenge of assembling, painting, photo-etch and adding things. I even found brass photo-etch SPS-49 radar (1/350 scale) that looks OK.
Now, I am working on a group of Nichimo 1/200 Japanese warships. I love the brass propellers that come with the kits. I am even putting in the motors. The "Experts" will hang me for doing that.
But like Tracy said, I am having fun with it.
ENJOY !! It's only a hobby.