I use rules but also have exception to the rules.
Ship era and finished ship model size are determining factors. Sometimes comingling is allowable and sometimes it is not.
Occassionally have to purchase a given scale to obtain a reasonably sized model of a given craft- not too large or small.
1/72 is a great scale for mtbs and smaller sailing ships but not anything larger. A 1/72 Fleet submarine from WWII is about 5' in length! Even a 1/72 Napoleonic Frigate is a 36"x36" size model.
There are many 1/400 European navy kits balanced by many 1/350 Pacific rim naval kits. They do not appear badly side by side. But best if separated.
1/200 is great for submarines and maybe DDs and sailing ships but quite larger for WWI-II cruiser and larger warships.
I will say that 1/700 makes more sense once the built quantity edges towards a dozen. But I think I cannot go back now.
If you want to do a development of sailing warships in plastic then it is a cross-section of scales:
1/100 Heller Victory, 1/150 Heller French 74, 1/200 Heller galleon, galleas, Belle Poule, Lindberg frigate, Revell 1/150 frigate, 1/22X frigate,1/22x Victory, Imai 1/150 Napoleon,...
What a mess!
There will always be exceptions. But I think once you starting displaying you find new areas around the house to place different scales.