I don't actually disagree with any of the above. In fact, I'll go so far as to say that I think I can see signs (albeit not very strong ones) of a shift in the behavior of wood ship kit companies. The HECEPOB world (that's Hideously Expensive Continental European Plank On Bulkhead) seems to have been remarkably quiet recently. I haven't heard of any new and outrageous products from any of those companies for - well, maybe it's been as long as a couple of years. (Caveat: I base that statement on one, and only one, source: the Model Expo catalogs. For all I know, Corel, Constructo, et al may be unleasing all sorts of horrors on the market someplace else.) And at least two of the HECEPOB companies, Amati and Mamoli, have released products recently that actually appear to have been designed by people who know what a scale ship model looks like. That's a major change for the better.
Anyway, when I'm asked questions like uspsjuan's I usually respond by recommending the products of three companies: Model Shipways, Bluejacket, and Calder-Jotika. Please bear in mind the following caveats, though: One - I'm not actually much of a wood kit enthusiast, and can't claim to have personal experience with more than a few of them. I have, for instance, never had my hands on a Calder-Jotika kit (and I'm not at all sure I'll ever be able to afford one); my opinion of that company is based entirely on published pictures and reviews. Two - all these companies have been around for a while, and their products have varied considerably in quality (generally getting better) as the years have gone by. Some Model Shipways kits, for instance, are conspicuously more sophisticated than others.
The new "Admiralty Models" line of eighteenth-century British warships from Amati also appears to be excellent. (As I understand it, those kits are designed by a gentleman who used to work for Calder-Jotika. Much of the standard Amati line looks like typical HECEPOB garbage, but with the Admiralty Models series the company seems to be trying to reach a different, more knowledgeable audience.) And I've seen pictures of an H.M.S. Surprise from Constructo that looks like it deserves to be taken seriously.
That's about the best I can offer. Good luck.
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