tankbuilder,
You raise a number of important and valid points. The lessons, and there are scores of them, to be derived from the event have been characteristically ignored and the errors repeated in their own fashion since then. But, the distribution of social favor and merit was as inequitable on land as it was on the ship in that age. It was, I think, a reflection of how society ordered itself then. And it felt justified in doing so, right or wrong.
We, too, have our prejudices and assumptions and our social definitions of merit which perplex me to this day. Income now goes to athletes, media stars and, as always, those who are best at stealing legally. The treatment accorded them is far different from that experienced by us commoners. You get, as always has been, all the justice you can afford. Perhaps, some day, this will be considered atrocious. But not now.
I'm a bit skeptical about the metallurgical claims that are made for ships coming to grief many decades ago. I have heard the hypothesis, but not seen the analysis. I'd really like to see a modeling of the stresses encountered vs. the construction techniques employed. I believe that I saw holes in the plate (in some of the dive videos) where there should have been rivets. I wonder if welds would have given way so readily. Pure speculation on my part, but I'm too old to jump to conclusions. I need to walk.
I would like, if I had the "one wish", for someone to drain the oceans and let me wander about until my curiosity about its secrets were visually revealed.
I remember blue water over the bridge (I mean the flying bridge) on the 4,100 ton DEG I lived on for 6 years during some gawd-awful storms in the North Atlantic and thinking what it might look like when we got "down there" if that bow didn't come plowing back up again. (Well, mainly what it might feel like to drown in icy water.)
The fate of the passengers of the Titannic is more than a theory to me. I can imagine it, but I didn't experience it, so I know I can't comment and feel clean about it.
But, I know all the words to the Navy Hymn 'cause I hummed it quite a bit back then.