I am also with you. Like panel lines in aircraft, door lines on cars, and many other details on models, some people like to see stuff emphasized more than visual appearance of the prototype would call for. If the prototype really had some feature, the model should have it visible, whether it would be visible at scale viewing distances or not. Others, like I, feel that the visual appearance should replicate the appearance of the prototype.
It is similar to the question on ship models,when building a wooden model, of the finish. Many kits are made of fancy woods which look beautiful when varnished, even if the prototype was coppered and painted. The outcome of such discussions always seems to be, it is up to the preferences of the builder. Personally I prime a lot and sand and fill to reduce the depth of those details. No boiler rivets on aircraft, only fine, subtle planking lines on a wood ship. But that does not mean it is right for everyone.
My specialty in ships are the Great Lakes bulk carriers. It is interesting that during the changeover from wooden hulls to iron and steel hulls, available pictures cannot be used to identify the hull material on many of those ships. The paint covered up the planking lines or hull plate edges. So if I couldn't see the detail on the prototype, I don't want it on my model.
A similar argument is planking a hull- that is the way the prototype kit was built, so a model should be built that way too. But there are planked hull kits of iron and steel hulled ships, like the Titanic :-)