It seems reasonable that new patches on old sails would be lighter than the original canvas. And probably of a very slightly different color - since no two bolts of sailcloth would be exactly alike. But the bottom line in such subjects is: keep it subtle. My inclination would be to aim for a difference in hue and value that's only noticeable to somebody looking at the model closely.
A good guide for such topics is the Old Master marine painters. Take a look at some good color reproductions of paintings by people like the Van de Veldes, Robert Salmon, Thomas Cluny, and Francis Holman. They learned their trade by looking at the real thing.
Another thing you'll notice in the works of painters like that: they often made their flags translucent. They were right. Big flags frequently were made of an extremely open-weave fabric, like very coarse gauze. That kept them from blowing themselves to pieces in a high wind - or messing up the ship's navigation. Some of those flags were as big as ship's topgallants.
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