A Cannon-class DE was 300 ft long (LWL) and 36'10" wide. In 1:32 scale this works out to 9.25 feet long by almost 14 inches wide. That is a very large project.
A one-off commission build from a fiberglas hull company would likely be a very expensive proposition. You would end up paying all the R&D costs which the company would then amortize againwhen they put your hull in their product line. You would essentially get shafted. Consider a fiberglas kayak (of similar size to your project) is several hundred dollars - and the cost has been amortized among other products. In addition, cost and effort of scratchbuilding the superstructure and all the deck fittings could lead to a life-long project.
Is the subject of your diorama the ship or is it a piece of action which is associated on or near the ship? If it does not pertain directly to the ship itself I think I'd rework the focus to center on the other subject and have the ship as a background. Use a shadow-box method to force perspective. Use only a section of the hull as a backdrop.