Panther88:
I would suggest that you check out the reviews on either Modelwarships or Steel Navy. They have pretty decent reviews of almost every kit and photo-etch kits known to man.
Also build what you want. If you want to start with a 1/350 battleship, and not a smaller destroyer, then it has a greater possibilitiy of being compleated.
Right now I am building the 1/350 Trumpeter Hornet as she appeared at Midway. The fit is ok, but you have to fill some seams in. Thank god the Flight deck is ok!! I think that tyey take so long in that you have to paint and build in sub assemblies as you go, plus thing several steps ahead.
When you undertake a 1/350 ship model, expect to spend some time on them and you will be well rewarded. They look great in display cases. as a matter of fact, my wife like for me to display one in the living room. She says that it adds a bit of class to the room, ship models have a tendecy to do that.