The most comprehensive source is James Lees's The Masting and Rigging of English Ships of War, 1625-1860. (It's generally safe to assume that American frigates were rigged similarly, if not identically, to British ones.) The book contains tables that show the sizes of the lines. It contains far more information than you need for this particular project, but if you ever want to build another, similar model the book will be just as useful for it.
There's a volume on the Constitution, by Karl Heinz Marquardt, in the Anatomy of the Ship series published by the Conway Maritime Press (in Britain) and the Naval Institute Press (in the U.S.). This one has taken some criticism in various quarters. Mr. Marquardt missed a couple of important sources of information that he certainly should have consulted, and made at least one error in his text. (It's been established that the ship NEVER had an eagle for a figurehead.) But the rigging diagrams are clear and nicely drawn, and in my opinion they're generally reliable.
For the history of the ship herself, there are two good, recent sources: A Most Fortunate Ship, by Tyrone G. Martin, and Old Ironsides: The Rise, Decline, and Restoration of the U.S.S. Constitution, by Thomas Gilmer. (I may have garbled the title slightly.)
The wood kit by Bluejacket (www.bluejacketinc.com) contains a set of plans that are widely regarded as the most reliable reference to her appearance during the War of 1812. I don't think Bluejacket normally sells the plans separate from the kit, but a nicely-phrased letter or e-mail might shake a set loose.
There's a ton of information about this ship out there. The sources I've mentioned are just the tip of the iceberg, but they'll get you off to a good start - and probably provide more than enough info to do a great job with the Revell kit (which, by the way, is an excellent one). Good luck.
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