I'm not the expert, but what I do is as follows. (Not only on plane exterior, but also bike engines, etc.)
Firstly, gloss coat of a non-acrylic nature. (I like TS13, but there are many different options). You then make a very thin acrylic wash with black/brown/gray (depend on background colour, effect you want, etc) acrylics, thinned ad nausiem. Either with your paint manufacturer's thinner, soapish water or window cleaner. From there on - simple. You take that "sludge" and simply paint it into recesses, corners, etc. It will look outright terrible at this stage, but you then clean it afterwards with an acrylic thinner (on either a cloth or earbud), which won't touch you non-acrylic gloss coat.
Please test before doing! Don't (like me) screw up a finished model the first time you try it! I took the wrong thinner-bottle by accident and completely messed up! Fortunately, nothing that can't be redone, most of the time!
Hope it helps. Good luck!