Juat a few little tips from your Uncle Jay to ease your pain; I've done lots of PE and here's the techniques that work for me.
No fancy benders for me ,I use a pair of wood chisels or a combination of a razor blade and a #17 or #18 Xacto blade (the flat chisel type)
I use Gel CA, easier to work with in most cases. Dab the part into a blob of CA and wipe some off if you hafta.
To help eliminate the part from pinging off into the wilderness from your tweezers use a "sticky stick " to handle/hold the tiny parts when glueing. You can buy them or make your own with a tiny dab of blue tack or modeling clay on a toothpick. I use "Drum Stick Wax" from a music store. Stick the part to the toothpick, dab into the CA and install, wait a few seconds and the PE will come free of the toothpick.
For me a large lighted magnifier is a must ( old eyes don't cha know )
I hope this helps, happy modeling.