I still measure precisely with syringes, but as a retired lab rat, it's just an old habit—but it's a good way to learn.
The problem is that different paints, even of the same brand, may have different viscosities, which change slowly over time with gradual solvent loss. So I start by measuring fairly carefully an amount of thinner that I think is just too little. Then I look at it. If it looks like it needs more thinner, I add more. If it looks too thin, I add a little paint.
The suggestion to actually look at some 2% milk in your mixing container is excellent. And the bottom line is that it takes practice, just like everything else with an airbrush.