I use mineral spirits. Like most things in our hobby, I'm sure folks do it a few different ways.
For a wash, Turpentine may cause problems with the underlying layers. Normally you'd do an oli wash over an acrylic base coat, or seal your enamel base coat with a clear acrylic (like Future) before doing an oil wash.Turpentine might eat the acrylic layer.
See this thread:
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