Hi Striker,
I see you're new too. I've haunted the forums for a while, but this is actually my first post.
I've also been very concerned about paint fumes, both from a safety and an annoyance point of view. I've read extensively through these forums looking for the ultimate answer. There's tons of good info, but not surprisingly, everyone's got their own opinion based on their own experience.
I did find one link that I thought was extremely useful. It was in this forum, but I can't remember who posted it. The link is http://modelpaint.tripod.com/booth2.htm . It's a good description of how to do the math related to paint booth construction, especially when it comes to fan strength and ducting, which looks to be one of your main problems. It should apply whether you build a booth or buy one.
I can't vouch for its accuracy, but it sounds right. If it is, the length of your ductwork and all the turns you have will end up requiring a fan that would be so enormous as to be completely impractical. I would strongly suggest reading through the web page before you invest any money.
I have similar problems to yours, and I've been very frustrated. I've just gotten back in the hobby after a hiatus of some 30 years (!). I was getting ready to start airbrushing my first model when I started researching all this. I've ended up doing a test spray with acrylic, and the fumes seem non-existent compared to enamel. I'm still going to pick up a respirator, but I think my solution is no paint booth at all. Acrylic paints, a fan running on low to keep the air circulating, and a respirator. My workshop is half of my entire basement, so fortunately there's a lot of air available for dilution!
The main issue is safety. The problem becomes how to be safe without becoming pathalogical about it! And I guess the only answer on that one is that everybody has to draw that line for himself. I think I've struck a reasonable compromise, but I'd be happy to hear from anybody who thinks differently.
Good luck with your situation!
Joe