Make sure the paint is thoroughly mixed and careful not to spray on layers too "wet" as this can make make the finish appear a bit glossy. Many light coats are better than one heavy one. And as the others said, light colors sometimes work better with a neutral gray as a primer.
Also, if you do try to shake, a couple of zinc-plated bb's added to the bottle will help, although if it has settled, you will need to stir it at first.