Yeah, fought the battle of finding a suitable thinner for Vallejo last year around this time. In my experience recommendations for thinning with water, water with detergent added, etc, sucked. No matter what I did it sprayed like water, ran all of the place. The drop of detergent just made it bubble.
I finally found success with Future. It'll thin it down, but has enough cohesion to keep it from going all runny when it hits the model. An added bonus with Future is, once it cures, it's pretty tough (and smooth and shiny):
Then, earlier this year, I heard someone in the LHS talking about how Testors Acrylic Thinner (NOT their universal enamel/airbrush thinner!!!!) worked really well, better than Vallejo's own thinner. So of course I tried it out! Loved it. Behavior in the airbrush is very similar to Future. Spraying characteristics are slightly better, but it's slightly less durable on the back end. IMO it also sprays a bit smoother so if you're doing soft-edge camo by hand it may be the better way to go.
For cleanup - a cup or two of Windex will absolutely clear things out, then a few flushes with water just to be sure (and get the Windex out of the internals...the ammonia can damage some airbrushes over time).
Testors Acrylic also works really well for Lifecolor paints, FYI:
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