I'll start by saying it is possible to apply gloss paint so that the result is flat, and it is possible to get at least a semi-gloss finish with flat paint- it is in the technique. To put gloss paint on flat, you need to use very thin coats (not much paint, regardless of thinner mix) and higher pressure. Conversely, to avoid a flat finish you need to apply the paint thicker, and with lower pressure, to get a good gloss.
In fact, I frequently describe putting down a good gloss finish as a session of brinkmanship. You build up the coat to a point just before it runs. Now, how do you know it is just about to run before it actually does? Experience. You need to practice to learn what that appearance is.
For good gloss, I do thin just a bit more than I thin flats. I use a lower pressure (15 psi), reduce the distance from airbrush to surface, and apply it heavier so it flows on the surface. Yes, occasionally it will run. In that case, when thoroughly dry I sand out the run and apply another coat.
I use enamel, which is easier to get gloss finishes with. However, thick coats of gloss enamel take forever to dry. So I built a homemade paint drying oven. It only runs at about 105 degrees, but a day in the drying box dries as well as about three or four days in a humid cool basement.