I assume you are using enamel paints. They do take longer to dry than Acrylics. Though days does sound rather a long time. I have found a day for enamels is usually enough to be touch dry.
Best paint is wide open to opinion. Some prefer Acrylics, some enamels and within that there are many ranges that people prefer for their own reasons. I prefer Enamels myself, using mainly Xtracolour. But many don't like enamels because of the smell, longer drying time and that are more hazardous than Acrylics.
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