That article posted by Tojo there is a fantastic resource.
You've got two issues here, some people lighten the paint as you go down to smaller scales with a set formula - personally I just screw with it till it looks 'right'. Still it probably should be somewhat lighter on a 1/72nd vehicle. Two, the paint does fade as it weathers in the sunlight.
Frankly I'm not sure how much you can do if you're using a spray can though since you're kinda stuck with what they package.