Gloss black enamel is only used on high shine Alclad colors such as chrome, polished alum and airframe alum. I use Testor's gloss black enamel from the small bottle and it works like a charm.
Using black with the non high shine Alclads will not provide the depth it does with the high shine ones so greys and whites are ok to use. If the primer coat is not smooth, then the Alclad will have an oxidized weathered look, not rough and grainy.
I also live in Florida where it's VERY humid and have never experienced any of the issues you are having. I have a good moisture trap that captures tons of water and works just fine.
Starting with the plastic before priming, I polish the plastic up to 12,000 micromesh pads to get it looking right then shoot your primer, preferably Tamiya's white or grey or gloss grey enamel. Make sure the primer goes on glass smooth and let it dry for a day or two. If using a flat primer, then you need to lightly polish the area just to kill some of the flat texture. You can use an old T shirt to lightly polish the flat primer.
The next step is spraying the Alclad which you DO NOT thin and shoot at 8-10 psi in very thin coats.