Yikes no MEK is bad stuff. It will do you some damage. Just a little lacquer thinner will do the job. And do not wipe the fret with anything. Thats a disaster.
I think that if Tamiya white or gray is not going to work for you because of the $$$, the next choice is another model primer like Model Master. Or plain Testor's gray in a spray can.
Now, I do use Rustoleum Red Oxide as a color coat on the bottoms of my ships. Anything that comes from the hardware store, and yes I am guilty; is thick and you need to be careful with it. My dragster was finished in Krylon Gloss Red and it came out ok, but I had to be careful about runs (Stauffer's First Rule of Brinkmanship).