Gee sounds like you have covered the basics and more.
So going outside the box:
1. is there a fan blowing in the room?
2. .do you have a painted drywall ceiling or something like acoustical tiles?
3. Is the painting area in an enclosed place (box, paint booth etc) or open on the bench?
4. Do you have pegboard behind your spraying area?
5. Is there an open window nearby with air coming IN?
6. Have you vacuumed around the bench area before you wipe down?
7. Is there a fan in a nearby window blowing air out- this could draw dust partials from behind you into the area, on the way to the fan?
8. Perhaps you could take a small plant mister can, and mist the area to give it one last chance to trap “smuch” out of the air?
9. Get or make a spray (paint) booth
10. Don’t give up; the silliest answer may be the right one.
Also as an aside regarding the repainting and the sanding off of details; if the dust bunnies are more like dust buffalo’s you may want to consider stripping the paint instead of sanding-
Good luck