Dave -
Some airbrushers use lacquer reducer for thinning regularly, with good results. One advantage of that is faster drying time, with good "bite" for more positive adhesion. But LT is not compatible for spraying over a previously painted enamel finish, it can wrinkle the enamel by being too agressive and attacking the finish.
LT is my most used product for cleaning the airbrush after use. For MM enamel I thin with their own Universal Enamel Thinner, 1/2 pint red can, product number 8824, or major brand enamel thinner. MM thinner is pricey for the amount, so for much of my enamel painting I thin with a major brand, (Du Pont.) MM thinner is about $10 bucks for the 1/2 pint can, the other is about $7.00 for a quart.
One major consideration for painting is good light. In order to see how the paint is laying down and flowing from one pass into the next, good strong light at a slight angle to the surface will work well. One pass should just "melt" into the previous, otherwise you have either a gritty or pebbly surface.
Best practice is to get a good supply of paint and thinner, some plastic scrap to paint on, then just spray away. Using good light will be an advantage, varying the distance from the object, adjusting pressure and thinning ratios will all demonstrate what works best, and what doesn't work at all.
When I got started over 50 years ago I had frustrations, over just what you have described. About to give up I thought ya' know, others can do this, I can too. So I sourced a lot of scrap material for practicing on, and spent long periods just doing that. When you see that your work is improving, the motivation to continue practicing is what makes the hobby so enjoyable.
I quit trying to paint models until I felt my work was worthy of actually painting one, several sessions of that intense practicing paid off and I had the confidence to go about finishing models. Been enjoying the hobby all the more for decades now, but keep in mind that airbrushing is not quite as easy as one might think when getting started.
Plenty of youtube sites about airbrushing are worth a visit, I've learned many things new to me from them, and from the experienced guys here on the forum. If you have not yet visited "Don Wheeler's Airbrush Website," I heartily recommend it. You'll find just about everything there is about airbrushing, including cleaning and adjustments. So well worth the time.
I'll bet next time we hear from you, you will have some success stories about your own work to tell us. I'll look forward to it.
Patrick